Baby Blueberry – 26 Weeks

How far along? 26 weeks. BB is approximately the size of a head of lettuce, about 13.6-14.8 in. and 1.5 to 2.5 lbs. BB’s eyes are forming the he will open them soon. His immune system is ready for life outside the womb now and he is soaking up my antibodies.

Total weight gain? 23 pounds

Maternity clothes? Dresses are the most comfortable. Some of my size small maternity pants don’t fit well anymore.

Movement? All the time!!! It is so reassuring to feel him wiggling around in there.

Miss anything? lunch meat, white rice, feeling relaxed (having a hard time doing that with so much going on)

Food cravings? bacon, egg, and cheese biscuits, burgers, sweet tea

Have you started to show? Yes, and my bump seems to be all baby. You can’t tell from behind yet.

Sleep? Sleep has been good, but we’ve been getting a bit less of it because we have some homework we do in the mornings now from my childbirth class, Hypnobabies.

Looking forward to? All of our favorite shows will premiere in the next two weeks, so I’m excited about those coming back on. Big Bang Theory on Monday, Sept. 22, NCIS on Tuesday, Sept. 23, and Castle on Monday, Sept. 29.

Symptoms: Fatigue, extra mucus and flem, moodiness (I was emotional before pregnancy, so this isn’t helping), back pain, hungry more often, itchy skin, discomfort where my upper abdominal muscles are stretching out, color changes on my stomach, leg cramps, some tooth/joint pain

Belly Button in or out? It moves between in and out depending on what time of day it is and how much food I’ve eaten.

Gender? We’re having a boy!

Best moment this week? I have had a really hard time seeing good moments this week. Many situations have arisen this week that we didn’t foresee occurring and that we didn’t financially plan for. But even in those moments, I know that God is still for me and that His ways are higher than mine. All that said, I guess my best moment of the week was being a part of replacing a roof on a friend’s house today. While I couldn’t help much, I got to enjoy seeing many men pouring out their energy and sweat to bless this lady with a leak-proof roof!

What do I know? I know that I hate feeling busy and rushed. I don’t like it when I get to the end of the day and haven’t had a moment to catch up with my husband or to breath in a breathe of relaxation. My Hypnobabies scripts have helped create that space, but because it’s homework, it still feels like one more thing on my list that has to be checked off before the day is done. I don’t like living like that. I enjoy checklists as a tool, but I don’t like it when I need to plan my life around them to meet my schedule. Hopefully, after my childbirth class ends (I’m glad I chose to do it, it is just 3 more hours a week I have committed to be somewhere), I will get to breathing easier.

Note to the Blueberry: Dear Blueberry, I promise to live in the moment with you…no matter what other people say or what the current American culture encourages. No matter what might need to be done, spending time with you and loving on you are more important. I promise to play in muddy puddles with you. I promise to look at insects and trees and animals with you. I promise to have water fights and sword fights with you. Sometimes work will have to get done, but I pray that the Lord will teach me how to spend time with you, even when I am doing those things. I don’t want my existence to be my to-do list. Give me grace, because I won’t get it right all the time. But know that in my heart, my deep desire is to live richly in every moment with you and your dad. Love, Mommy

all there


Baby Blueberry – 12 Weeks

(Sorry this is a bit late. I was 12 weeks on Friday, June 13th)

How far along? 12 weeks. BB is approximately the size of a plum, about 2.1 in. and .495 oz. Almost all of the baby’s systems are fully formed.

Total weight gain? The scale I bought didn’t work. Whenever we would step on it, our weight would change from one time to the next, so I threw it away.

Maternity clothes? I still need pants, but I can still wear regular tops, but they are getting a little short.

Movement? Still too early for that.

Miss anything? my energy, staying up a little later when friends come over, lunch meat, white rice

Food cravings? fries

Have you started to show? I’ve started to show. You can’t see it from the front necessarily, but if I turn to the side, you can see a little bump. (though this week’s picture seems smaller than last week’s)

Sleep? I can’t get enough of it!

Looking forward to? Hearing something about our house this week. We are scheduled to close June 25th, and we’re hoping the USDA paperwork will come through by then and all the repairs will be done by then as well.

Symptoms: Fatigue, lots of extra mucus and flem, moodiness (I was emotional before pregnancy, so this isn’t helping), back pain, hungry more often, sore breasts, back pain, itchy skin (sometimes)

Belly Button in or out? Still in, but I don’t think that will last very long!

Gender? We should find out sometime in August at my 20 weeks ultrasound. (I think it’s a girl.)

Best moment this week? Taking care of my sweet husband on Thursday. He sprained his ankle (which isn’t fun), so I took him to the doctor. Then, I got medicine and another brace. We went home and ate Zaxby’s for lunch, watched Friends, and cleaned up the house a bit. These are my favorite moments in marriage-just living regular life out together.

What do I know? I know that I love my choice to go with a midwife. ‘Midwife’ means “with woman”, so the entire philosophy behind midwifery is that they remain with you for the duration of your labor and delivery. I love that I will have their constant support and expertise during those critical stages. I also know that a water birth sounds amazing!

Note to the Blueberry: Dear Blueberry, I can’t decide if you are a boy or a girl. Either way, you will be a delight. Sure, you’ll spit stuff up on me, and poop in the bath, right after I finish cleaning you. You will say ‘no’ a lot and won’t listen to what I tell you to do sometimes. You will make me angry, and sad, and happy. Sometimes all at the same time. But you are a delight. You are a gift from the Lord. I hope you will learn that quickly, and never forget it. I love you already!



Elise (and BB)